Category: Mentality To Excel

The mindset and mentality tips to excel and maximize growth.

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Wins, Losses, And The Gravity Of Past Success

No UFC Heavyweight Champion has defended the belt more than twice!  Winning is difficult, and when the competition is stout, repeated winning has an extra element of difficulty.  The gravity of past success can be as hard an obstacle to overcome as winning the title, to begin with. Take a look into the mentality shifts

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Breathing And Relaxation For Jiu Jitsu

Until a basic understanding of relaxation is achieved there will always be a limit on what the white belt can achieve.  The first major project the white belt encounters in their Jiu Jitsu Journey is to master relaxation for Jiu Jitsu.  The reminders to relax and breathe seem so easy to forget in the moment.

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Jiu Jitsu Tactics (Heavy Is The Head That Wears The Crown (part 2))

Bouncing back and making changes after a strategic or technical loss in Jiu Jitsu is logical.  Strategy and technique have a concrete feel to them with near-immediate feedback.  Attitude and mentality are the most frustrating ways that I have lost matches.  There is this hard to grasp quality about them.  It seems like I can

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Jiu Jitsu Strategy (Heavy Is The Head That Wears The Crown. (Pt. 1)

I have lost more tournaments than I have won. Lots.  Most of the tournaments I have lost have been because of either my strategy, attitude, or mentality. I have repeatedly made strategic mistakes.  The most common strategic mistake that I made was trying to approach a match holistically as if there was some honor in

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Doing Versus Thinking In BJJ

In my mind, I finished the sweep and passed effortlessly to side control.  I was going to win.  But that isn’t what was ACTUALLY happening.  That was my imagination separating from the realness of the moment.  That was me projecting how I wanted things to go by playing a movie in my head that wasn’t

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What To Do When You Are One Of The Best Grapplers On The Mat

Getting squished and overcoming adversity forged my improvement.  When I was at the bottom of the heap I could see and feel all the ways I needed to improve. After years of being one of the worst grapplers on the mat, I finally became one of the upper belts.  The way I focused on improving my

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Stop Trying So Hard To Be 100% Awesome

I don’t know where I got the idea that I should feel 100% awesome on tournament day.  This false conviction seemed to branch off the myth that the other competitors weren’t nervous, that they felt READY and I should too.  This type of “supposed to” caused me extensive grief.  I end up spending significant time

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